She may actually like you and be playing hard to get. And if she doesn’t, well you’re better off anyway! 4. Wait till she’s done resolving whatever it is that’s going on, and let her come to you. If a girl tells you something is going on in her life and she really just can’t deal with holding conversations with you, I’d believe her and back off for a while. It would also have to be some serious shit if she tells you this. This girl you probably wouldn’t want to get serious with anyways if she’s too busy to make time for you. She may actually think you’re a coolcat but be swamped with things going on in her life. How? You’re a smart guy (or girl……?) You’ll figure it out. Now I’m not saying go all Edgar Allen Poe in your approach but find a way to make yourself stand out.
And when this is the case, she’s probably getting a lot of the same messages – which is why your “let’s go grab a drink” or “wanna hang out?” message is going unreplied. So young Jedi, I’m almost sure the girl you’re going after has probably a lot of other guys after her. She’s receiving the same messages from many other guys. With the help of some great friends sharing some stories of their experiences, I’ve come up with a list of why a girl probably stopped replying to your messages (or phone calls, subliminal messages, handwritten love note in a glass bottle, whatever floats your boat.) Get ready to be ENLIGHTENED! And you’re honestly probably a really rad person but clearly it wasn’t being put forth. I’m going to go ahead and call it and say about 90% of the time if your texts are going unheard or takes hours or even days to get replied too, trust me when I say this, it’s not them, but it’s more than likely you. You were debating which sauce dip you wanted with your nachos. Now don’t get me wrong – there could be many factors affecting tardiness of a response and I get that. But then boom – hours go by and you suddenly forgot to reply to the message. Nonchalantly just opening a message and planning to reply to it when we’re done at the gym or when we’re home from hanging with our friends. It really is a nuisance when someone takes light years to respond to a text message when really, in this day and age, it probably takes about 20 seconds to reply to a text within receiving it.
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